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Six Steps to Victory {How to Outsmart the Prowling Lion, the Devil}

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I’ve been thinking about that old lion lately.

The one that prowls and scans the crowds, his insatiable hunger salivating, dripping as he looks for the perfect prey.

The perfectly easy-to-pick-off prey.

In these thousands of years, the lions in Africa have not changed their hunting habits. Nor have the big cats of India or North America. No evolution in their hunting style has been required – because picking off easy prey works for them.

Recently, one of my younger kids asked me about demonic possession – not a topic we discuss too much around here. “Mom?” she asked, “Do people get demon possessed anymore? It seemed to happen a lot when Jesus was here. Does it still happen?”

She didn’t realize that she was asking a question that could be the thesis of a dissertation, that whole books have been written on the subject. And, I tend to be a long-answer-mom. I’m the parent who launches a diatribe in response to simple questions. I’m learning that’s not the always the best course. I decided, in response to this query, to keep things simple, but honest.

I prayed a little prayer, asking for the best answer. This is what I gave her:

“The enemy, Satan, is like water. Water always seeks the path of least resistance. The easiest way down. Water can roll and thunder, move a mountain’s worth of dirt, but the big rocks, the solid, high boulders, it cannot move in a single rush.

Satan looks for the easiest route and he has limited resources. He has a certain number of demons – no more, no less. and they are limited in that they are not all-knowledgable or all powerful. And, population has grown tremendously over the past few thousand years. They are losing, not winning, the battles and the war. Whenever a team is losing, they have to re-strategize, look for easier, more efficient ways to try to win.

Satan will always look for the easiest win, the easiest take-down because he’s more aware than we are of his limitations, and of his real opponent: God.

Yes, there is still demon-possession, but when distraction, oppression, physical ailments and apathy (not caring) can get the job done, then why commit a few demons to one person? Satan will choose the easy course.

Our defense is to be rock-solid. To know and be known by God, to be in community with other rock-solid believers in Jesus Christ. To know that our strength to resist Satan’s God-given power is in seeking God’s strength every, single day.”

And I’ve been watching, friends, since that conversation with my daughter, who the enemy is taking down. It makes me angry. Like little David fighting Goliath, I know that it is God’s anger in me. When I pray for those I love, I get red-cheeked and mad about the enemy flooding his lies like putrid water over their precious souls.

Peter, Jesus’ friend, disciple and denier, knew firsthand the weakness of pride and self-sufficiency that results in utter failure (Matthew 26). On the night of Jesus’ betrayal and arrest, Peter asserts with all his ruffled feathers, “Everyone else may desert you, Lord, but not I – not ever!”

Oh, Peter.

Jesus knew. Jesus knew that Peter was going to be a mudslide, a disaster, a washed up heap of pride.

Thank God for Peter and his messed-up pride. Because in his failure and redemption, in his story and because of it he can say with authority (in 1 Peter 5:5-11) what losing a battle with Satan looks like and how to win the war with Christ.

“…Be submissive to those who are older. All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” Humble yourselves, therefor under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in die time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith…” 

Peter gives the battle plan for resisting the devil and all his used-up, not-at-all-fresh schemes. Satan is a poseur, an impostor well-practiced but not at all able to really change his strategy. Remember, the old saying, “The more things change, the more they stay the same.” We need not be taken off-guard by Satan. But, we do need to stay fiercely connected to Jesus Christ, our only strong defense against this enemy, this prowling beast who seeks to devour.

1. Submit to one another.

Honesty in community. This is the connective force that Christians have been given because of the sacrificial and redemptive work of Jesus Christ. He is our grace glue, the force that makes us a fibrous, resilient community. Stop faking it and be honest with the people God’s given you, be transparent. This is the only wise course. Christianity is not a solo act.

2. Submit to the authority of God.

After we practice submitting to one-another, submitting to God’s sovereignty should be easy. But, we are prideful people, always thinking that we know better than God.

There is tremendous freedom in admitting our need for God — and really, who doesn’t need an all-powerful creator, sustainer, savior and friend on their side? I know I do.

3. Allow God to fight your battles, knowing he cares about you.

This is where the enemy muddles us. He isolates us through old hurts, lies, little deceits that mislead us, and leave us alone, vulnerable, away from the community he’s given us.

Denying yourself God’s love, cutting yourself off from his true and continual flow of concern and care for you (often shown best through the aforementioned community) will leave you vulnerable to the enemy, vulnerable to the destructive nature of your own pride.

This is dangerous territory, this going it alone, this finding friends who tell us what we think we want to hear instead of allowing the practice of humility in community to strengthen and protect us.

4. Open your eyes!

Be alert! Your background, your activities, your job, your goals – none of these guarantees that you’ll stay the straight and narrow.

Look at Peter: disciple, member of the inner circle, even. Total failure. His pride and self-sufficiency blinded him and he ended up wasting opportunities to testify of his knowledge of Christ and seeing God’s ability to protect him. He watered the earth with bitter tears.

Pride, independence, self-sufficiency -these will nail you every. single. time. There is forgiveness, always. You can always turn to community and Christ. But the scripture makes it clear: learn your lesson! Get humble! It works. Humility brings healing, opens your eyes to see the spiritual truths in your here and now.

5. Don’t play the pride game.

We resist the enemy best when we are standing firm in the faith. How do we stand firm in the faith? Repeat #1-5.

6. Repeat #1-5! 

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Friend,

I am praying for you, my readers. I will pray for your protection from the enemy. Will you cooperate with God’s plan for victory? What areas of your life weaken you, isolate you, make you easy pickings for that old lion, that old silver tongued serpent? How can I pray for you so that you stay in community, stay in God’s care and win with Christ?

Alyssa

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Can I Shine for Jesus When my Dog Poops on the Floor?

My dogs pooped in the hall. Both of them.

My cat puked in the laundry room.

I argued with my daughter.

I used bad words in said argument.

I didn’t wash my face last night.

I let my kids eat pop tarts.

I ate two desserts after dinner.

I’m having a hard time forgiving someone.

I fear I’m losing a friend and I’m not losing weight.

In fact I think I gained weight last week.

I’m a little fearful of what the future holds.

I let insecurity get the best of me.

I’ve said the word stupid about 40 times today (remember the dogs?).

I’ve already ranted and it’s not yet noon.

Since early this morning, I’ve worked on the same sentence over and again in my head and it’s just beginning to make sense:

Let your your light shine bright before men,

not so that they can better see you,

but so that they can better see the Light 

that cannot dim in storm or shadow or sorrow or

even in the fog of mediocrity,

that others may see the right path for their steps to follow

because you were beside them…shining a little light.

My society dictates that I should be able to use butter in my cooking like Paula Deen but have abs like Jillian Michaels.

I should, if I choose to stay at home rather than pursue a career, have plenty of time to organize my pantry, plan dates with my husband, read to my children, grow my own food, raise my own chickens, bake from scratch, never buy anything with high fructose corn syrup, learn photography and consistently present my picture-perfect life in amber-tinted tones on Instagram.

As a Christian I should know my purpose, never become discouraged, enjoy Hillsong worship music, write hand-written thank-yous, never sin when I argue, show up on time with the answers completed for Bible Study.

I will always be an utter failure.

Especially in regards to Jillian’s abs and Hillsong Pandora radio. Never. Gonna. Happen.

But I will keep turning toward the Light of God’s word because I really don’t want to conform to anyone else’s idea of perfect.

He tells me I am complete, lacking in nothing. {James 1:4}

He tells me I am qualified. {Colossians 1:12}

He tells me I am a gift and an important part of future. {John 17:2-24}

He tells me I can praise him and look for him and cry to him. {Psalm 116}

So when I burn the cookies, scream at the dogs, wail over the sixteenth load of laundry, He knows what I really want

to be accepted

to be enough

to be useful

to be loved.

Jesus knows me at my best and my worst and really neither extreme phases him, impresses him or turns him off. He forgets my sin and knows my name.

He smiles when I come to him covered and disheveled in the rubbish of this world. He rubs my face gently, removes the grit and reveals the glow.

Because when I turn to Jesus, look full in his face and allow his grace to touch me, then I shine His light.

In the same way, let your light shine before others,

that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.

Matthew 5:16  
Friends, Don’t forget this:
Jesus has done the work for you!
Stop trying so hard.
Let yourself be.
Let yourself be loved by Jesus.
Let his truth be invested in your spirit and give you joy
where there once was a mess of anger,
peace in the places where confusion reigned,
hope in his salvation,
and grace to get through the day–
victoriously.

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Six Inches of Freedom – Parenting Independent Children {A guest post}

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She first climbed out of her crib at 9 months of age. She landed with a thunk on the nursery floor that brought us parents, new and a bit intense, running to her aid.

We found her up and into the basket of toys that hailed her attention in the morning light, unhurt by her awkward tumble to the floor. She got to where she wanted and she was happy.

This fierce independence has long been a driving motivator in her life.

My first born! That I survived her was proof enough that I could handle any child.

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Won’t you click the link and read the rest of this post, (including three reasons why we should foster an independent spirit in our children) at my friend, Shari’s blog?

Shari blogs at Leaving a Legacy. Like many of us, Shari’s been handed some things in life that she wasn’t sure she had the strength to overcome, but you’ll see after just a few clicks into her pages, that Shari had a faith in God that grew deeper and richer through the trials. As a cancer survivor, a social worker, mother and wife, she has learned the importance of legacy. And she is committed to encouraging others to keep looking up to Jesus, even while walking the hard road.

Shari and I went to high school together and happily, we’ve reconnect just recently through the internet and blogging — isnt’ that fun?

Posting here, linking up too, with Ann Voskamp, and  Tracy

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A New Person in Christ {Second Chance Blessings}

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I am a new person in Christ – Ephesians 2:15

The Lord will command His lovingkindness in the daytime. -Psalm 40:11

Simple truths robe this Monday morning and the ties that wrap round me begin with “I am a new person in Christ” and “My  Lord will command His lovingkindness in the daytime”. There is always enough of God’s lovingkindness to envelope me and tie me in snug.

Winterlight flickers tender through gray February clouds. Coffee steams in mugs the color of earth and robin’s eggs. Coffee’s distinctive scent is undetectable until the cherry pits are roasted, heat applied and the seeds crack and brown and the richness is wooed from the fibers of the seed. And it’s scent is a comfort.

And my friend sits opposite of me, our faces both bare of makeup, hair undone, and we visit in the comfort of morning light and coffee scent. Our legs drawn up, we curl on cushions like cats not ready to tackle the to-do lists of the day.

And we are not young anymore. Our kids aren’t at the breast or scampering around our feet or drinking juice from a sippy cup. They are at school, and work and college. And we are in a new-ish place.

But we have felt the heat of years and miscommunication and hurt feelings, yet, we smile at each other with the knowing that this re-newed friendship is a precious thing. A gift wooed from grace and hearts forgiving and sorry and stilled. And we know now that the season of separation was a growing season. A time we needed to feel the blade of pruning and the stretch of sending roots ever deeper.

And I know now that the dying season is not what it seems. Though the loss is palpable and the emotions raw, the yielding of one life always leads to a new life.

A better life.

A Christ-life of renewing newness drawn fresh into cleaned-up hearts by the continuing lovingkindness of God.

That lovingkindness encircles us like robe ribbons and the trails of steam from coffee invites us to be new-old-friends-again.

The lessons we learned are the smoothest of pearls, whose depth of tone are created by pain. And these are the most treasured. These lessons that we share bear the holiness of the name YHWH, the name breathed but not spoken, because it is too holy, too sacred. But they are present in the smiles in our eyes, they speak of the knowing that we can be, today, new in Christ, that we are in the daylight of his kindness.

And it shines on a Monday morning, fresh as February strong as the brew in our cups.

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Friend,

Might I encourage you in this: don’t give up on the lost people, the hopeless situation, the relationship that might be strangled by the past and doubtful of a future.

We look to a Creator-God. Since we see the perpetuation of creation in the seasons, the giving up of seed, the dying of leaf of flower, the sprouting of new life and the promise of new fruit, let us not deny its power in our lives. God will create new in you, in your loved ones, in your future. You will see. Let him do his work. Become holy in the sacredness of his creation in your hearts. There will be the dawn and full light of his lovingkindness, drawing you to him in fresh life. It may not be what you planned, this is true, but it will be blessed in ways you never dreamed possible.

Blessings,

Alyssa

Counting gifts:

- teacups washed and brilliant in morning sun

-coffee brewed, ready for me

- a morning free

- a sister healing

- a friends new and old and the grace to bend

…thank you.






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What Will You Carry in Your Heart’s Pocket? (31 verses)

“I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” {Psalm 139:14}

“Dad, do you think I’m a really good artist?”

The question crossed over my lap while we three sat on the sofa eating supper (the house is torn apart for this remodel, so we’re gathering for meals everywhere).

“Sure I do,” he replied between bites, “I’ve told you that before. I think you draw really well.”

And I wondered. So between the two I asked with a little tease, “Honey did you feel like you needed a compliment tonight?”

And the answer stunned.

“Well, it’s just that today at school I was doodling in my notebook before class started and this girl walked up to me and pointed to my drawings and said, ‘Is that how you draw?’ and I said, ‘Yes’, and she said, ‘You’re really bad‘. So I was just taking it to heart a little bit.”

A part of me died. A part of me rose up, angry. A part of me mourned.

What is it about us that insists on destruction? We destroy ourselves and others with negativity and criticism. We listen to the lies that slither out of the dark recesses of our minds and then project them onto others. This time the innocent target was my daughter.

She does, indeed, draw well. She’s creative and moldable and out-of-the-box in her approach to everything. And now she bears a seed of doubt flung by a careless peer, (who no doubt bears the seeds of doubt planted by another).

And hasn’t that happened to all of us? Have you received that grain of doubt and hate scattered by someone without rights to your spirit? I have. And further, I nurtured its noxious ways by my own thoughts, too. It’s no wonder that we hide our dreams and talk ourselves out of freely offering our ideas. We disbelieve that our offerings could be useful to Jesus or others. We put away the paint brushes, the camera, the poems scrawled on scratch paper.

We doubt our worth to the point of asphyxiation.

But there is a way to reverse the destruction. We may be crippled by the overgrowth of doubt, but can we, like David, look up through to the Creator and praise Him? Or, do we blame God for making us flawed?

“I praise you” David sang, “because I am fearfully and wonderfully made”.

Can we see the Creative God through the cloud of doubt? Can we turn our hearts to praise him instead of gazing at our own accomplishments and failures?

You see, your fingerprints are unique.

Your irises are a marvel.

The way your ears work in tandem with your brain is a feat of micro-engineering unmatched.

You are valuable.

Seek the Father, like my little girl did. Turn to the One who knows and loves you best and find out the truth. Ask and receive his answer.

True, we are all marred by sin. Each of us is predisposed to it, but we are first created in a God’s image and declared “GOOD”. That is what God knows about us, what He, in his mercy, has given us: His goodness.

Jesus fixed the problem of sin on the cross at Calvary. When you accept him as your Lord and Savior, you are declared “justified”. You are legally free from the punishment of the sin condition.

Why did he do this? Because he created you clever and kind and creative and interesting — fearfully and wonderfully. He wants you to live fully in this and live your days in praise to the One who made you.

We do have a choice who we believe and what we perpetuate.Will you nurture destructive seeds of doubt or empowering praises? What will you cast into the minds and hearts of others? Criticism that destroys or praises and goodness?

What will you carry in your heart’s pocket?

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