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{Advent} When Heaven Came Down

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It was the quietest of nights.

It was the most insignificant of cities.

It was the remotest corner.

But what happened there changed the course of humanity.

No one knew when the labor pains began except for his young, inexperienced mother.

No one heard his first quivering cries, except for his father.

But all heaven rejoiced. And good news traveled on the rush of angels’ wings to light up dark skies as a corner of heaven peeked through the dark curtain of night.

And shepherds–terrified and breathless–collapsed on rocky soil, blinded by the brightness of the messengers.

The messenger spoke, shook the ground and changed everything:

Do not be afraid.

For unto you this day a Savior is born in the city of David, who is Christ the Lord.

And multitudes of angels, millions upon millions of them joined in song. The jubilant chorus poured down light on dirty sheep-tenders–those men of the earth whose beards smelled of the smoke of their small fires–transforming their rough, hard-living faces into expressions of childlike awe.

Glory to God!

Glory to God in the Highest.

And on Earth, Peace and Goodwill to men.

The curtain closed. The night sky in its velvet black closed upon them. A sheep bleated and men remembered to breathe air again.

And once again, it was the quietest of nights.

For the simple shepherds this night would be the most sacred. It was the moment heaven met them. They went to the baby, wrapped in clothes, lying in a manger in the remote corner of that insignificant city of Bethlehem. They worshipped what they didn’t yet understand. What they had witnessed was heaven eclipsing the darkness of the sky and a baby emerging into a merciless world. It made little sense, but it was worthy of quiet awe.

Thirty years passed and multitudes gathered again–this time on the shore of Lake Galilee and in the temple courtyard and on the side of the ancient mountain.

And the multitudes listened and followed and begged for help. They ate and they questioned and they praised with branches of palm. Could it be possible that a shepherd from that night long ago found a place among the crowd?

And then the multitudes gathered again.

It was Passover in Jerusalem and the crowds came in sets of families and clans. They saw the babe, now a man known to claim that he was the Son of God. He gave them signs and miracles; he gave them forgiveness and truth and healing. But he failed to be the king they were seeking. He was a Nazarene, and nothing worthwhile came from Nazareth. He was an insignificant sham. The crowds gathered as storm clouds, piling up, rumbling and seething. The multitudes shouted demands that the innocent man be traded for a seasoned criminal named Barabas. Who would listen now to a shepherd’s tale of singing angels and the infant promise of the prophet Isaiah? The mob pulsed with fury. The exchange was made: a criminal set free for the price of innocent blood.

And they scattered into the darkness again.

For it was the darkest of days.

And just at the moment that Heaven might have sewn the drape of Heaven shut, it was torn in two. Dawn came with the nervous clamor as the women’s sandals climbed the path to the tomb. The multitudes were gone. The shepherds tended flocks, the farmer plowed, the fishermen talked of returning to their nets, but the women came bearing the spices of the dead.

They were met with the brilliance of heaven and words that shook the earth:

Do not be afraid.

The One you are seeking is not here.

He has risen from the Dead.

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Advent is looking for the “Coming, especially someone of importance”. What do we look for? A baby in a manger? A victorious king? A kind man? A miracle worker? Or, do we look for a risen king? What leaves us breathless in expectation?

Philippians 2 tells us that Jesus will receive his glory and coronation because of the cross. One day the multitudes of millenniums will bow at the name and glorious title: Jesus Christ, King of All.

Friend, we are the criminals set free for the price of innocent blood! That is the gift of Christmas. We have that old, old story etched on the scrolls of history and retold myriad times in the lives redeemed by the baby of Bethlehem.

We have only to turn to the word to pull back heaven’s curtain to see the glory of the story of Jesus, to hear the angel’s song in our dark souls, to peer into the empty tomb and watch him ascend into glory. We would have no Christmas season without that precious book and the story of our Savior. Read Luke 2 as if you’ve never heard it before. Like the shepherds of old who gazed and wondered at the host of angels and the helpless baby, run to the One who was born that night and make today the day your knee will bow and your tongue confess that Jesus Christ, is Lord.

Blessings,

Alyssa

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Vivid Love

Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me.Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. {1 Corinthians 13 8-13}

Her voice shimmered vivid over my head, pitch-perfect, clear and right as birdsong.

Sunday morning sunshine streamed in the stained-glass windows and rainbow hued the small sanctuary. I sat next to her and strained my eyes to make out a word to sing, to follow along. To sound like her.

Oh victory in Jesus,

my savior forever...”

Her brown arms lifted the red, hard-bound hymnal. Her short-trimmed fingernails revealed a life of work, but the softness of her fingertips belied her profession: mother. Laundress, housekeeper, budget-maker, rule enforcer.

In my blue eyes, she was the law and the love and the safety I needed.

In time, my mom became less in my vision. Of course, I became infinitely more important in my own estimation, being sixteen.

And of course I snuck out and did my share of lying to her; I felt pangs of guilt, but pushed them down in the murk of denial. My mom, though she possessed the softest, round arms, was a rock. She took what seven kids dished out and still managed to get dinner on the table and make Christmas happen every year.

It wasn’t until I was seventeen, and my parents and I moved to California (my grown siblings settled in their own lives), that I saw her as just a person.

She remained my mom, but apart from everything that had grown familiar and in a new ministry (my dad was a denominational pastor and took a position in a little church, now closed, in San Jose), I began to realize my mom wasn’t super-human, just human.

She had a sign posted on her bathroom vanity mirror that read, “I know I’m somebody, cuz God don’t make no junk!” I had never seen that in our old house, but understood that now, in the newness of our situation, apart from almost everyone (her kids) who had served to define her purpose and priorities, my mom was healing, re-learning her own identity in Christ Jesus.

The “rock” I’d seen was vulnerable, a little less perfect, but so much more an individual, a person. And I realized I wanted to get to know her, not for what she did for me or what I could get from her…just her.

Her thoughts, her story, her past riddled with mistakes and wrung free with redemption’s grace.

The years passed and I began my own life as a mom. Now I am the mystical, miraculous, misunderstood mother. And, when she helped me learn to nurse and bathe and become all thing mother-y, I vividly remember being just a little bit in awe of her again.

More years and more additions to my family came, while age settled into the lines of my mother’s face and the  bones of her body. Suddenly old. A new hip was installed and I left my four kids to care for her as she recovered. And even in her weaker, vulnerable state, biding her time in physical therapy and pain management in the nursing home, her strength, her faith flashed vivid and strong.

And I am more like her and she is more like me as we accept not our human positions and responsibilities in life, but as we, with great resilience grasp hold of our heavenly positions: redeemed, forgiven, loved children of God.

The famous “love chapter” in the Bible tells us that these three remain:

Faith

Hope

Love

Faith and Hope are the gifts that keep us looking forward. Someday, faith and hope will be unnecessary because we’ll be with the Author of our Faith and we’ll be in the presence of our Great Hope. Only and always Love will remain.

Of all the gifts my mom gave me, these three remain: faith, hope, love. Albeit imperfect and perfectly flawed, she revealed to me in part the only things that will truly matter in the end. Because we all know that a mother’s indefatigable love is the closest representation of the Abba-Father love we know in Christ. And that she did well: God didn’t make her junk, he made her a mom.

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Hospitality’s Simplest Form: Loving People {and you should be doing it}

While painting the walls of my son’s room, I washed a clear blue hue of the sky at dawn over layers of paint and plaster, I smiled at the idea of welcoming him into his new, big-boy room. Silly, but I thanked God for the walls that were built ten years ago, that I was painting yesterday.

These walls were set in place by the builder who laid the foundation, framed by my dad, sheet-rock hung and mud-and-taped by my husband and a few friends–all in just a few months’ time.

We were in a hurry.

We were expecting a baby. We needed more room.

So when he wasn’t at work, my husband was at work in the basement converting a cement and pine hole into a welcoming pair of rooms for our older children. This flurry of hammers and wire, plaster and carpet sought one goal: to welcome baby. A little stranger already loved into our house, into our home.

I can’t build walls. I certainly can’t build houses. But these bedroom walls heard my thanksgiving as they made their way to the heart of God.  I can build a home.

I can welcome strangers. Anyone can. Everyone should.

I’ve heard it said, “Oh, you have the gift of hospitality”. Really? If someone has a well-organized party, a casserole in the oven, coordinating linens or clever wine-glass charms is she hospitable?

What is hospitality?

The Greek compound word combined felos, meaning brotherly love and, zenio which meant stranger. Be friendly to strangers.

Love people.

  * “Loving people” is included on most official lists of gifts of the spirit, those attributes usually defined to mean a supernatural, Holy Spirit given ability or insight used to reach the world with the Gospel of Jesus Christ  and build up and encourage the body of Christ, which is the church.

…but is loving people, hospitality, more like fruit?  

* “Loving people” is not a spiritual gift but a natural response from a person who’s life has been graced by God’s love and who is living gratefully for the salvation and hope she has received in Jesus Christ. My definition comes from 1 Peter 4:8-9:

Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers a multitude of sins.

Offer hospitality (loving people) to one another without grumbling.

  * “Loving people”, or practicing hospitality is a practical extension of what Jesus taught to be the Greatest Commandment, Matthew 22:37-39:

Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind; This is the first a greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘love your neighbor as yourself’. All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.

  * “Loving people” is the human “how-to” to the famous “how’s come?”

Anyone who wants to love God completely is compelled to ask, “What does loving God completely look like?

Is it piety? Is it the practice of spiritual disciplines? Is it Bible study?

Is it service? Is it monastic living? Is it stewardship?

Jesus answered: It’s loving others like you love yourself.

Simple needs always met:  food, shelter, water

Comfort always sought:  warmth, friendship, beauty

Pain always addressed:  relief, medicine, attention

Mind always challenged:  education, thought, interaction

Emotions always considered: love, familial longings, compassion

  * “Loving people” simply says with honest actions and love:

It doesn’t matter who you are. What matters is that you are here.

And, this love is supernatural. It is the very same love that compelled Jesus to say to you:

It doesn’t matter who you are. What matters is that that you are here,  

 in my family, in my welcoming, outstretched arms.

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How about you? What does loving people look like to you? Do you have any stories to share about someone who loved you–expressing that what mattered was not who you were, but that you were there?

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